Laguna Hills, CA, 10/5/2015
I recommend signing up for Terri's services if your heart is right with God or is teachable enough to be right with God. Before making the call to Terri, please read the parable of the laborers in the vineyard (Matthew 20:1-16) and Philippians 4:12-13.
If you come to God with expectations like the laborers in the vineyard, more likely you may need to resolve a few matters with God before signing up for Terri's services. If however you identify more with a grateful heart like Paul (described in Philippians 4), her services may be a better fit.
I signed up for her services with a very arrogant perception that that I can buy my future spouse (and pick the specific qualities I desire). Using Terri's services could "Speed Up" that plan God has in store. Due to personal matters (not Terri's fault) I remain single because of matters I need to specifically address with God.
Terri has however been used in the process. On 1 occasion, I disqualified a divorced woman b/c I didn't have an answer whether her husband left her (my old church was very black and white about Matthew 5:32). After Terri reminded me of all the murders, rapists, and convicts Jesus saved, it was very eye opening to see that the scarlet letter is superseded by grace as we come to God in repentance. On another occasion, I asked Terri what a Proverbs 31 woman looks like in the 21st Century. She refused to give me a cookie cutter answer, but simply said a woman who has a very genuine heart that seeks God as demonstrated by the way she loves her life.
I should have been more prayerful prior to signing up. However, God is sovereign and works out the good for those who love him Romans 8:28). Regardless whether Terri matches me or I find someone independently, I have learned over the years that God can do immeasurable things way beyond what we can ask or imagine (Ephesians 3:20).
If you are debating the services, you can ask Terri for my # and we can chat.